Random Acts of Kindness Week- 15th 21st Feb 2010

February 8th, 2010

What a lovely celebration I hear you all saying!

Kindness is an expression of love and is something we all have. Using it makes us feel better. It creates a sense of community and gives us a sense of value and self worth. Kindness is also extremely contagious and the more we experience it in our lives, the more we want to pass it on so creating a wonderful domino effect of love and kindness. Here are 20 ways to spread a little happiness around you.

1. Leave a chocolate bar at the bottom of the vending machine

2. Send someone a handwritten note or letter of love or thanks

 3. Buy a stranger a lottery ticket

4. Pay the toll for the next person in the queue

5. Put coins in someone else’s parking meter

6. Treat a friend for no reason

7. Send a postcard to a friend and tell them how much you love them

8. Make someone’s morning by giving up your seat on the train or holding the door open

9. Take flowers to a hospital ward and give it to somebody who has had no visitors

10. Pick up rubbish

11. Leave a pound in a shopping trolley

12. Help an elderly neighbour

13. Leave a copy of an inspirational book on the bus

14. Send a kind, inspirational word or email to your friends

15. Give your newspaper away to a stranger

16. Help someone carry a pram or suitcase up the stairs

17. Give someone a gift secretly

18. Give a compliment

19. Tell a member of your family how much you appreciate them

20. Drop off some chocolates at an old people’s home

Or try our “Secret Angel Game” from a previous blog!

Love and Kindness Exercises

February 8th, 2010

As ever we have some lovely exercises to keep you chilled out this month with your family! Valentine’s Day does not have to be filled with pressure and stress – it is a time to relax with the ones you love, so here are some tips with love from all of us at RK!

Colour Breathing

Take in a breath and, as you breathe in, imagine you are breathing in the colour pink for love.  Feel this colour touching all the parts of your body inside. Send it around your whole body.  Now, as you breathe out, see if you can imagine breathing the colour into the room.  Fill the room with the colour pink.

Smelling Roses

Imagine you are smelling beautiful fragrant roses in the garden. Take in a deep breath and see if you can smell the wonderful roses. Concentrate as hard as you can, enjoying the soft scent of the roses. 

(Sniff and sigh.)

Smiling Heart

Close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose, slowly, and out through your mouth.  Put your hand on your chest and spend a few moments feeling calm and relaxed.  Now, Imagine that you have a smile in your heart.  Watch how you start to have loving feelings. Can you send that smile up to your face?  Let your mouth smile gently.  Breathe in and out and rest there for a few moments.  Now open your eyes and see how different you feel.

Kindness reflection

Spend a few moments with closing your eyes and reflect on or think about the positive qualities of a person and the acts of kindness they have done. And to yourself, making an affirmation, a positive statement about yourself, using your own words. 

Massage 

Imagine you are sprinkling love dust all over your partners head, neck and back.  Draw large love hearts with your palms on their back.

Love and Kindness affirmation

Repeat ‘I am a kind and loving person, I am a kind and loving person, I am a kind and loving person, I am a kind and loving person, I am a kind and loving person, I am a kind and loving person’

‘I am loved, I am loved, I am loved, I am loved, I am loved’

LOVE Picture

Write the word LOVE as large as possible in graffiti type letters and let your child colour in the word.  They can add pictures of things that help them feel calm.  Let them use calming colours – anything to create an image of calm.  Tell children to stare at the picture and see how loving they can feel.  Then ask them to close their eyes and make the picture very small – like a postage stamp.  Tell children they can keep this little picture anywhere they like in their body – heart, head, finger.  Whenever they are feeling stressed and anxious, they can look at their calm picture and feel loving.

Valentines Day 14th Feb 2010

February 8th, 2010

Valentine’s Day is around the corner! Time to share some time with the ones you love!

Valentine’s Day may be a time to appreciate one another and celebrate your love – but this does not necessarily mean that we have to lavish each other in expensive gifts – where the price tag may have been raised because of the holiday associated with the time of year.

Why not celebrate Valentine’s Day this year with a lovely duvet day for all the family – grab some comfy cushions, put your pyjamas on and pad out the living room in front of the fire. All decide on some favourite DVDs, snacks and treats and spend some quality time as a family. Just relax! You could even try some relaxation exercises together, so that you all experience being calm and serene in this manic world together.

Make your family’s heart smile with this exercise:

Close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose (slowly), and then out through your mouth.  Put your hand on your chest and spend a few moments feeling calm and relaxed.  Now, imagine that you have a smile in your heart.  Watch how you start to have loving feelings. Can you send that smile up to your face?  Let your mouth smile gently.  Breathe in and out and rest there for a few moments.  Now open your eyes and see how different you all feel.

Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to remind the ones that you love, that you respect and appreciate them. Focus on the things that make the people in your life special and encourage their dreams.

For more tips and exercises to help your family relax: visit www.relaxkids.com

Children are not getting enough sleep

February 5th, 2010

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In a recent article in the Guardian, it stated that children sleep an hour less today than 30 years ago and this is having a dramatic effect on their intelligence, behaviour and obesity levels according to surveys by the National Sleep Foundation, yet 90% of American parents think their child is getting enough sleep.

The Guardian states

There are as many causes for this lost hour of sleep including over scheduling of activities, homework, lax bedtimes, television sets and mobile phones in the bedroom.

However, sleep scientists have been able to isolate and measure the impact of this single lost hour. Because children’s brains are a work in progress until the age of 21, and because much of that work is done while a child is asleep, this lost hour appears to have an exponential impact on children that it simply doesn’t have on adults.

The surprise is not merely that sleep matters – but how much it matters, demonstrably, not just to academic performance and emotional stability, but to phenomena assumed to be entirely unrelated, such as the international obesity epidemic and the rise of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

Some scientists theorise that sleep problems during formative years can cause permanent changes in a the brain structure – damage that a child can’t sleep off. It’s even possible that many of the hallmark characteristics of adolescence – moodiness, depression, and even binge-eating – are symptoms of chronic sleep deprivation.

Several scholars have noted that many hallmark traits of modern adolescence – moodiness, impulsiveness, disengagement – are also symptoms of chronic sleep deprivation.

Might our culture-wide perception of what it means to be a teenager be unwittingly skewed by the fact that they don’t get enough sleep?”

Here is the full article

How to explain the importance of sleep to your child.

Explain the importance of sleep to your child.  Once they know the effect it has on their body and mind, they may start to appreciate it.  Explain that sleep helps our bodies stay healthy and fight sickness. Body needs sleep so our bones and muscles can grow.  Our bodies are repairing any injures that happen during the day while we sleep.  Sleep is vital for the brain so we can remember things, concentrate, learn, solve problems and come up with brilliant ideas.

During the day we use up so much energy thinking at school, playing in breaks, eating, taking lessons after school and by the end of the day, our bodies are like a car that has nearly run out of petrol.  They are tired and ready to stop.  We go to sleep and fill up on petrol so we are ready and full of energy for a new day of activity.  During the day, it is light and this is the time to be awake.  Sunlight lets our brains know that it is time to wake up but when the day turns to night, our brain makes a chemical melatonin which makes us sleepy.  We need it to be dark to sleep.  A dim nightlight is fine, but as we need to keep the room as dark as possible so we get the best sleep.

If you can’t get to sleep, you can try lying on your back and breathing in and out slowly and deeply.  Close your eyes and say, ‘I am relaxed, I am relaxed, I am relaxed’  You could even count sheep slowly.  Imagine you can see sheep jumping over a fence and see how many you can count as each one jumps over a fence.

Here is a great relaxation to read to your child to help them sleep.

The Robot

Close your eyes, be very still and imagine that you are a robot. Your whole body is made of metal. The lights on your arms and legs and stomach are flashing brightly. The robot also makes all sorts of beeping and bleeping noises. It is a very noisy robot.

Now you are going to see if you can switch the robot off and make every part of your body completely still. Start with your right leg – bring all your attention to your right leg and turn off the switch. Your right leg becomes totally still.

Do the same to your left leg, switching off the switch and watching the bright lights on that leg turn off. Switch off the light on your stomach and make it very, very still inside. Now do the same to you arms, turning off the lights and letting your arms become very still and heavy. Finally, turn off the switch in your head. Switch off your mouth, switch off your nose and eyes and finally switch off your eyes. You should feel very still now. See how still you can make your robot body. Don`t forget that if you move anything, then the lights will go back on – so stay as still as you can.

Extract from best selling The Wishing Star and Quiet Spaces CD

Relax Kids Residential training weekend

February 4th, 2010

Our Residential Training Weekend is here.

Date: March 20th 21st

This is a great opportunity for those of you who would like to learn how to teach Relax Kids to children and spend some time away having a relaxing weekend.  There will also be a FREE crystal bowl sound healing session on Saturday night.

Using the powerful sounds of Himalayan and crystal singing bowls, toning and overtoning, Renee will guide you through a beautifully powerful experience of deep relaxation. It truly is will be a fantastic way to restore your body and spirit!

Renee will use himalayan and crystal bowls along with her voice (toning & overtoning) to take everyone on a journey of relaxation through the vibrations of the sound.

The perfect training venue

The perfect training venue

Beautiful training room

Beautiful training room

Participants will have the chance to come on our great course and not have to worry about meals and accommodation!

Lovely accomodation

Lovely accommodation

Come and combine your learning with a short break away.

Feel refreshed and inspired at the same time.

Even a meditation hut in the garden!

Even a meditation hut in the garden!

Come and spend time with like-minded people, take some time out for yourself as you soak in the tranquil atmosphere.

A tranquil setting for a relaxing weekend.

A tranquil setting for a relaxing weekend.

Cost:  Course £550 plus VAT

Saturday Night B & B, delicious vegetarian Lunch and Dinner and Sunday Lunch only £70 extra

Any extra nights B&B only £37.50

For more information about the training visit www.relaxkids.com/training

For more information about the Venue visit www.beacon-centre.com

Hurry as Places are limited!

Secret angels game

February 3rd, 2010

imagesWould you like to create a feeling of kindness and generosity in your home or classroom?

You might like to try this game.

This game can be played at work, home, at school, amongst children or staff.  It is so much fun and creates a wonderful atmosphere of love and kindness – perfect for Valentines month.

Not only is is uplifting for all, it is motivational and a wonderful chance to help children and adults be creative.  It also creates a great sense of community.  It is simple to play.  Names go into a hat and each person picks a name out of the hat.  For one week or month, they have to be especially kind, loving and generous to that person.

It is important that it is kept a secret though.  They can leave kind words, small gifts and treats, make pictures, cards, write poems, make secret cups of tea, but they must not reveal their identity.

At the end of the week or month, each angel confesses to his friend and they can share their experiences.

You could continue this and put names in the hat again and let everyone have another secret angel for the next month or week…

Give it a go!


Questions for Valentines

February 3rd, 2010

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Here are some questions to get the whole class or family thinking about…

Put some relaxing music on and take out 5 minutes out of the busy day to ask children to think about people who have made a big difference to them.

Ask them to:

“Name the people who have helped you”.

“Name the people who make you feel special”.

“Name the people who make you feel loved and valuable”.

“Name the people who you love being with”.

When they have completed this, they might like to write a note or letter to some of these special people.


National Storytelling Week – 30th Jan to 6th Feb

February 1st, 2010

 

In 2001 the Society for Storytelling created “National Storytelling Week” – so it is officially time to celebrate a decade of storytelling! Storytelling can come in many forms, from traditional famous fables and tales that have been passed down from generation to generation or chinese whispers that change and develop over time. Stories can be tales of happiness, woe or trivia. See http://sfs.org.uk/ for more details.

At Relax Kids – we are celebrating National Storytelling Week, by sharing with you one of our free story meditations from “The Wishing Star”. Enjoy!

RAINBOW

Close your eyes, be very still and imagine that in front of you is the most beautiful rainbow. The colours are twinkling in the light. You have never seen such a colourful rainbow. It makes you feel so joyful and light just looking at it. You notice the beginning of the rainbow and decide to climb it. The rainbow is made of tiny lights, all different colours. As you take each step, and your foot touches the rainbow light, your body is filled with energy. As you climb, you feel full of excitment and anticipation. Where does the sparkling rainbow lead? You reach the top. The view is spectacular. You decide to slide down. It feels such fun – this is the biggest slide in the world. Finally you reach the bottom. Has the rainbow taken you into another magical rainbow world? Is there a pot of gold waiting for you? Spend a few moments enjoying the world at the end of the rainbow.

And now, when you are ready, wiggle your fingers and toes, have a big stretch and open your eyes.

“I embrace happiness into my life, I embrace happiness into my life.”

CD of the Month – February

February 1st, 2010

Dream away to your heart’s content with our CD of the month – “Up, Up and Away”. 16 beautiful meditaions to set anyone’s mind a flutter and bring fantasy to life.

Every child hopes to live a life filled with magic, where all their wishes and desires are fulfilled. Allow our CD to take your child away from their everyday pressures.

Up, Up and Away offers this escape into the land where dreams are made of.

Listen here.

Love is in the Air… Kids Thoughts…

February 1st, 2010

It’s the month of love… and it is so interesting to hear what your childrens thoughts on love are. Here’s some of the best below! The answers were broad and deep… Ask your kids what they think!

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.” – Rebecca – age 8
 
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” – Billy – age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” – Karl – age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.” – Chrissy – age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”- Terri – age 4

“Love is when my mummy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” – Danny – age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mummy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” – Emily – age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” – Bobby – age 7 (Wow!)

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.” – Nikka – age 6 (We need a few million more Nikkas on this planet)

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” – Noelle – age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”- Tommy – age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” – Cindy – age 8

“My mummy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” – Clare – age 6

“Love is when Mummy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” – Elaine-age 5

“Love is when Mummy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” – Chris – age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” – Mary Ann – age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” – Lauren – age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) – Karen – age 7

“Love is when Mummy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” – Mark – age 6

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”- Jessica – age 8