Investing in the bank of love and friendship
Here is a simple and wonderful way to encourage children to build friendships and good relationships. Explain to your child that we all have a love and friendship bank inside. When they show love and affection or time and energy towards their friend, they are depositing in the bank account of that friendship. When they are not talking or saying unkind words they are making a withdrawal. Tell children that when we have good balances, it shows on our face and we are happy. When we have negative balances, we are more likely to be angry and sad.
Once we get into debt with a friend, it can cause lots of sadness and hurt. The best way is to start depositing. Here are ways children can make an investment or deposit:
Share a joke
Spend time
Smile
Laugh together
Bring flowers
Make a gift
Buy a gift
Go for a walk
Enjoy an activity
Dance
Hug
Sing together
Play together
Thinking about someone
Here are ways we can make a withdrawal and get into debt:
Be selfish
Say something unkind
Hurt
Shout
Be sarcastic
Not talking
Pull a face
Say a spiteful joke
Fight and hit
Kick
Sneer
Ignoring someone
Be uncaring
Be unthoughtful
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