about Anger

Tantrums and paddies are common with young children. However, when kids have a consistent issue with controlling their emotions and anger, there might be an underlying reason. Anger disorders can have a negative effect on childrens' emotional, social, and academic development and their future health:
  • Issues controlling anger and lower education levels are correlated by research.50.
  • Children with anger issues can be extremely disruptive in a classroom setting and potentially distressing for other pupils.
  • Children with aggression issues show lower levels of social development51.
  • Anger management issues are also comorbid with other conditions such as bipolar disorder and ADHD.

Relax Kids for Anger Management


"The other day we went to a school meeting. It was mentioned by Emily's closest teachers that they think she is more relaxed now. Emily has a very bad temper and could previously become very angry if everything was not exactly as she expected it to be. Her teachers asked Emily, "What happened? You are now better able to control your temper!" She answered straight away - Because I go to Relax Kids classes!"

Lena Jarsbo parent of child attending relax Kids classes with Ditte Adamas, Relax Kids Netherlands.

Relax Kids' strategies mimic clinically-proven anger management and mitigation treatments such as therapeutic exercise and yoga, breathing exercises, and mindfulness exercises. These can be used as anger management tools, ways to help at moments of meltdown, or methods to make time-outs constructive rather than punitive.

Move and Play - Intense exercise may help children to let off steam and reduce feelings of tension and anger.
Stretch - Simplified stretches maintain the physicality of the first two steps while promoting focus, balance, and calm and beginning to take the children's energy levels down.
Feel - Positive touch decreases stress hormone levels and increases ‘happy hormone' levels.52
Breathe - Controlled and deep breathing exercises promote calmness and focus. This helps calm the parasympathetic nervous system, which counteracts stress responses53
Believe - Positive affirmations have been demonstrated to counteract the effects of chronic stress.54
Relax - Our guided meditations feature mindfulness and visualization techniques which have been proven to have a positive effect on a wide range of emotional and stress-related disorders.55

Footnotes for all research pages

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